now trying to decide where to send letter of interest/intent.... Have family in NY and SO in Boston but would love to go to UCSF and SO would be more open to moving to SF than NY (but not for at least 1-2 years if at all). I know I need to make this decision for myself but I am human and it's really hard not to think about my relationship here. I am probably going to send letter of intent to UCSF but am still thinking for now. May not even get off WL and then it doesn't matter. Anyone else struggling with big life decisions?

I know this is a very good problem to have + I'm super grateful and would be happy with my options even if I don't get off the waitlist(s). Just struggling with the uncertainty of it all.