sorry to vent but my cousin and i are applying this cycle and it irks me to no end when she is like "uwu i'm so worried for my 4 IIs and starting my new and amazing gap year job blahblahblah, but HOW IS YOUR CYCLE GOING??" when it's pretty obvious that i am still in the trenches and life has been prettyyy shitty for other reasons recently.

i understand that it's totally valid to vent but likeeee bffr pls know your audience man. lol i probably should've posted this in r/AITA but i dont have reddit rip